So you'd like to go to church, stay a little under the radar and then go about your life? Not at The Crossing Church, as your every move is now being tracked. Lets break down how it now works:
Well you already know about the seat Nazis; you aren't allowed to be a grown up and pick the seat of your choosing as you are told where you will sit. This is done for two reasons; first, to make the room look filled and create an excited energy from being packed together, second, is for you to start submitting to their self-claimed authority over you.
Now along with your assigned seat comes the new Section Leaders. This is the brain child of mega-church pastor Bill Hybels. As you can see in this video, he explains that the entire church will be broken out into sections and each section will have a leader. He wants every person that comes in the church to be 'touched' by someone and welcomed. Sounds nice, right? Not really. The Section Leaders are then responsible for reciting scripted messages, usually about serving or tithing, to their sections and making those numbers happen. They'll speak to you as if they have some special thoughts from their heart but they have been given the exact words to say. If they see a new person they are to stop any conversation they are having and try and get that new person to their section. So of course numbers in each section are tracked, how many people they speak to are tracked and how many conversations they have outside of church are tracked. More people in the door means more tithe money coming in. Are you seeing the manipulation now?
When you don't show up the next week you are called as you're now on their radar. It's all done under the guise of "we miss you" but what they miss is that you are a number and their numbers went down when you weren't there. It's all false caring and it's fucking hurtful.
I'll say it again and I won't stop saying it ~ YOU CAN LEAVE! You may feel you have to stay, you may feel you have nowhere else to go, you may feel stuck but you aren't. People will not go to hell because you leave The Crossing Church. God is not going to be angry if you make a decision for yourself. You are not alone and you will be just fine. Really.
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